Yellow, you are a feeling. I saw you this morning in the sun, and I wasn’t ready to see you. Minutes later you hit me in the face with a pretty Insta post with the hashtag #goodmorning and #wakeup. You symbolized the feeling of dread I had today. This feeling of “the world just isn’t ready for the rage I have to unleash on it today.” I wasn’t ready for this pure lemon cake color. I was ready for coffee and grunge brown.
Yellow, I didn’t think I could interact with you today. I didn’t think I could start to see the good in the world. I didn’t think I could start to think that there are people out there that aren’t trying to be subversive and mean. I started the day spinning on my current friendships and wondering how they too are going to plot against me and suddenly flip the script and dump me in a dumpster fire like I was a couple days ago. This is not the color yellow. This is is pea soup green, and not the pretty kind. The kind with lots of bacon grease and goo.
Yellow, you started to find me today in reassurances. In little moments where I was told that I was a good person, despite words to the contrary. I found you, yellow, in snuggles with my kiddo. I found you in pre-lunch almond rocas. I found you in little social media messages with new friends where I got to share little inside jokes, about the color yellow. I found you in the acoustic version of Ella Vos’ “Down in Flames. I found you in the sun that snuck in through a small crack in the blinds.
Yellow, you were in my therapy room today, where I raged, and cried, and shook for 20 minutes explaining why I was so hurt and angry. And I looked across the room and saw this hilariously drawn unicorn with zebra stripes. I smiled and realized that you, yellow, were in the room. In that moment I realized that it really didn’t matter anymore. The truth will never be heard by the one person who would need to understand it. I was just the person in the way at the moment in their story of hurt. And that’s really sad. I can move on, but they are likely lost in a sad story. I wish I could be there, as I had been before, but I won’t be. That was the choice they made, and maybe one day looking back they will see that.
Yellow, thank you for being so beautiful. I went back to you today and noticed how pure you are. Thank you for putting amazing people in my life who talked me through amazing things over the past few days, especially those who knew both of us in this conflict and could really stand with me in understanding. I feel such a burden of release and relief. It’s weird to have a color associated with it, but I do. Thank you.